We all know that on vacation you can easily get acquainted with representatives of strong sex. Find a lover? No problems! That sin to hide, many behind it come back and come, we all have heard about our lanes, "fun" vacationers in or. Going to rest, many are configured on a trip to a different life. And sitting on the plane, they are ready for what they go to a fairy tale full of fun entertainment, lights, fireworks.
Office days - behind, I don't even want to think about them, a solid prose. But ahead - interesting adventures!
So, potential cavaliers are waiting for you ahead. But before you get acquainted with them, it is useful to find out what the resort detours are.
Sophisticated seducer
Oh, this man knows perfectly well that the ladies love ears. Therefore, it begins to hang on your ears tons of love noodles. He sings the nightingale and immediately begins to sink you with compliments. Gives flowers and even gifts. The main thing is to impress you. On the third day of dating (and even on the first evening) confesses to you in love. But if it comes to Intim, it turns out that in bed he is not ah ... as they say, all the forces go to the whistle.
Do not be surprised if it will also quickly disappear without explaining the reasons. Will fly to pollinate the next victim of the resort novel ...
Sole of company
Merchant, started and joker, a osplet with sharpness, laughs loudly. He loves to eat well, and do not drink not a fool (after which it can start clicking). He loves to dance. Although it does not really work, but dancing with enthusiasm.
What is something, but do not get bored with him! And it will not let you give not only to you, but also to the neighbors: it will yell at night under your briefings in love.
Usually he is not bad in bed. It takes no heat and ferventness. However, if you do not answer his passion, it can easily become a friend.
Shy Scroygona
Robot, so he himself shy to get acquainted. There is a sign that you will give him - it can be a smile, a flirty look, some question. Decent, reliable, diligently cares, ready to give up to you, fulfill your desires. I am ready to even become a replacement of the cavalier, with which you did not have a relationship. It suits him. If you are a woman with character, then it is for you - the most.
By the way, in bed may pleasantly surprise you. As a lover, he often turns out to be tireless.
Mysterious, courageous, imperturbable
Looks like a superman: a silent cowboy. Itself almost never meets. You can catch his views on yourself, but he will not show the initiative, will prefer that you do. If you want to tie a relationship with him, then take the brars in our hands, otherwise this "Iceberg in the Ocean" will never open. It is easier for him to express his feelings in an unusual, sometimes extreme setting: in the mountains, forest, on a deserted beach. But even if you have a relationship, it will not be possible to fully tame it, for this you will need a lot of time.
Big love for life? Chances: one on a million
Much more difficult . Similar novels, whatever thefts they are, most often have no continuation. As soon as the train or the plane rummage, the fairy tale is melting, as a beautiful mirage ... "Three happy days I had, I had with you ...".
Of course, it happens that on vacation you can meet a great feeling of life, like Chekhov in the "lady with a dog". But, alas, it happens rarely. After all, we are going to the resort as a holiday. And we behave accordingly - not exactly as in ordinary life, but more freely, relaxed, relaxed. The hot sun contributes to this. We are a little inxicated, we play a little role. Do not realize it yourself, we wear a mask and let yourself more than usual.
But maybe it is lucky, and your fate awaits you in the resort. Summate it to see and disappoint your happiness!
I asked me a written interview on the topic of the pickup - in the resort. For one Ukrainian language Internet publication. Especially not stuffing in writing answers to the questions of the journalist.
I decided to publish what I wrote. Immediately I say - I wrote in the calculation that all this will be reworked by a journalist. Secondly, he wrote particularly not playing the style and completeness of the presentation. Do not treat it as a dogma. Just quickly without thinking answered questions - in writing. The resulting article is far from an objective and solid look at the resort. But someone may be useful to those couple of tips that I contributed.
\u003e What are the features of a pickup in the resort?
The main features are that in the resort (or on vacation, including on a business trip in another city, in the context of sanatoriums and other), another rhythm and lifestyle than in the hometown.
In their hometown there is a bunch of factors in the lifestyle and men and women - who are a hindrance for the appearance and development in the principle of any relationship:
1 This may be the presence of other parallel relations of completely varying degrees of proximity (from ordinary friends, to workers, flirting relations, erotic friends, lovers / mistresses, wives / husbands, etc.). Moreover, regardless of how the person himself wants - these relationships can absorb his strength, time, energy and attention in such a way that even if this relationship is not satisfied with something (or not needed at all), nevertheless they do not allow To appear in his / her life someone else or something new.
2. It may be the work and life that can also take the lion's time, energy and attention in humans. So there is not enough desire for something new. And in advance it is unclear whether it is worthwhile to pour your strength and time at all. Will this be new - interesting and exciting, or boring, additionally exhausting factor. Therefore, many city inhabitants, absorbed by everyday worries, often simply avoid new and unknown.
3. These can be habits and principles that do not allow a person to make new acquaintances. The manner may not attend such places in which new people are massively found: nightclubs, bars, restaurants, concerts, exhibitions, etc. And the whole circle of communication can be limited to work, friends and its place of residence.
... well, etc.
In any case, a person who is cut off from all his usual life (consisting of the above circumstances) - it turns out to be much more ready for new acquaintances. And you can get closer to another person much faster than this happens in your hometown, where so many factors serve this interference. And if in their hometown, between the acquaintance and a date a lot of time can pass, because Both do not work for various reasons to be seen, then the resort between acquaintance and a date may not be a gap when they smoothly flow into each other. And the rate of development of the novel may be much higher. And from this depends on something at all, and whether the Roman himself will be exciting, emotional or vice versa - slowly sluggishly develop barely, without special feelings and emotions (due to the fact that there is no time in his city for it) .
In addition, the resort is eliminated by interference, factors contribute to these acquaintances are added.
1. The atmosphere of the holiday, which is trying to create Those who are in the resort of this: entertainment, discos, exotic, food, hot drinks, rides, new interesting places (excursions), walking around the sea, land, mountains, sports vacation - wind surfing , quad bike, paraglider, paintball, etc. etc. All this creates the feelings of unusualness, unusual (for this, people are going to rest), thanks to which all impressions and new acquaintances (and new acquaintances) seem brighter and unusual in general. Once all around is unusual and not like at home, then people seem unusual, dating, pastime, etc. And with unusual people - more entails and attracts.
2. At the resort you do not know anyone and no one knows you. Therefore, people can try themselves in new roles, to do what you can't do at home.
3. In addition to entertainment - there is a place and boredom in the resort. At home, you are not used to rest for so long, so free time in the resort is much more than you expected at the beginning. And as a result of a certain emptiness that familiar, friends, lovers, work, work, etc. are filled at home. -This emptiness seeks something to be filled: new familiar.
Now about pickup on the resort.
If in urban conditions, the girl can be trite not to be time for you, then in the resort - there is still such a time to eliminate. You both have a lot of free time, and a large selection of how to spend it, the same as yours. The main motive is where to spend time - to get pleasure from it, and save bright memories for the whole year. If the girl does not receive bright impressions from rest, the rest passed by. Therefore, in a certain extent, the efforts of a man quickly and brightly seduce in a woman's resort - meet a complete understanding from her part. Especially - if she is soon to leave, and an interesting bright meeting with a memorable man - has not yet been.
Those. Both floors in the resort - there is time and desire for the resort novel. And then it depends on whether you want to invest in each other at each other. Or you will look for a better option. Time is the second most important resource in the resort after money. It is too much to spend on someone for an extra time - it means to say goodbye to a piece of your holiday, which you may have waited a whole year. It is not by chance that I am interested in the resort first of all interested when you arrived and when to leave - to just understand how much time left. An experienced resort seducer will try to choose a girl who will soon leave home (especially if she has not yet found a couple - here on vacation), because Firstly, it will not be too long to resist the seduction, and secondly, having left him, will free it for new novels (and he does not have to make a good impression about himself - seduced by her and leaving the next day the novel with the next day).
In the spa girl favorably belong to romance. But do not like too timid. Quality is valued allowing bright emotions and impressions.
\u003e How easy it is that women who go to relax themselves or with girlfriends are often tuned for adventures and light flirt?
It makes it easier when a woman is configured to adventure and leagi flirt. This is the feature of the resorts. And well, if she can be independent and independent in his decisions from girlfriends. When it comes to the presence of a friend, the process of seduction is - this fact will rather take away. Because Girlfriends often perform the brake function for each other. Hold each other from being too given in to emotions with an unfamiliar man. For easy dating and flirting in the resort - a friend does not interfere, but on the contrary even helps. But as the resort novel is deepened, they begin to feel deprived (especially if they themselves have liked no one for themselves). Therefore, girlfriends help the start of dating (feel silent next to each other). But prevent the stages of transition of dating and flirting to the novel and seduction. To seduce a girl with a friend - it is obvious that a friend is needed who would take a girlfriend. Only not always there is even one couple from dating one to one. Moreover, it is more complicated to fold two pairs at once from a two-two-two situations. Therefore, all of the above about the girlfriend is completely fair for any situations. Girlfriends girls who you want to seduce more hindrance - than help. Although it all depends on whether the girlfriends feel themselves quite independent, so that it is wishes to walk on separateness. Then from the girlfriends - only the benefits.
\u003e What advise you to do with those who are "not conducted" to continue dating?
It is better not to spend time on them. The resort is a bunch of those who will lead. Why torment yourself and girl? True, a certain perseverance is better to show. Easy to understand whether it should be shown, looking at the girl's reaction. If, in general, she is nice with you, but it is not ready to deepen the phase of dating - sex, then you can try to be persistent. We just need to understand whether you are pleasant to the girl in principle. And if you are pleasant, you can not hurry to merge this acquaintance - due to the fact that the seduction is delayed. Just rationally distribute your time (not to spend all your time only on this girl), while at the same time developing several more such novels. Then you can wait a day or two until the situation is determined better. Just do not turn to the girl with which you have not yet slept in a mixture of an ATM, guide and animator. And if you are clearly not pleasant to the girl, or not enough for it is adorable - it makes no sense to spend strength and time on it. It is better for you to disperse and meet yourself more suitable satellites. Fortunately at the resort of this good in abundance.
\u003e Do you know or heard about men who have seasonal earnings on rich older women, novels with whom in warm edges? How much such fishery is popular with us?
I do not know and did not hear. This is not our profile. We do not take money from women! :)
And we rest in the resorts are not in warm edges, but in the native edges, where beautiful women are an order of magnitude more.
\u003e What type-view scenarios of the seduction of girls in the resorts could you call?
Typical scenarios can be divided by places of removal:
scenario\u003e Nightclub
2 Scripts: The first scenario for more status clubs - where they first walk, having fun, rest, and the choice of the partner you like is doing slowly and can repeatedly change it within the evening. The second for simpler clubs (bykotek) with simple nravami - where girls disassemble almost immediately and then no longer change their choice.
Be bright, cheerful, incendiary. Often communicate and meet new people. Take part in competitions. Dance having fun. From a heap of dating with girls - choose the one that will be well reacting to touch and kisses, and which can be taken with me home or by the sea shore (or anywhere). She will feel that with her very bright and cool guy, whom, if she misses, he will easily find out another.
Choose an object that you will be injected. Get acquainted quickly, boldly, disappearing on the girl right. Immediately hug and offer to drink. We will be alcohol and parallelly an isolate the girl from communication with anyone, except for myself and your company, making it with perseverance and convincing buffalo. Fuss for root - any attempts of other guys drive up to your girlfriend. She, too, so that she realize that she would have to choose a maximum of someone from the "real guys" of your company. At the time of how you hugged her for the first time - from these pores, the hand is almost not removed from her shoulder. Not to let her go anywhere from himself, being with her in close contact (as long as she does not get enough and will not be ready to leave with you from the club :))))). Not recommended in such places game in closer, and leave your girlfriend at least 10 minutes one. No flirting with distances or demonstrations of their pick-up skills in the removal of new girls. Example of persistence praise from a seduced girl: "Do you know how I remember 90% of the men? I immediately say that they mall will not be and they may not try ... that they are leaving better to go look another more affordable girl. And 90% so and They do - go. And in response, I still didn't go anywhere. And I liked that you were just around and did not leave. In the end, you achieved me, just not moving away from me, and waiting for so much time I did not decide ".
scenario\u003e Cafes, Bars, Restaurants
Handbringing, meet. Invite to dance (music in the resort everywhere). If the contact is good - becomes bolder and lips. Then to take a walk to the sea. Then you start where no one will interfere.
scenario\u003e Street
Fast option. For this option, it's good when a girl with a friend, and you with a friend. Already when meeting, frankly denote sexual interest. View, touch, words. As a rule, girls are immediately obvious to what you approached and what you want. If all this is well reacting - then they agree in principle. It remains to buy a drink, find a reason and place to go to stay all together a close company without witnesses. You can go to the sea to the beach, you can go home, you can still somewhere. The main thing is not a bar or restaurant or disco. There all the meaning of the rapid option - will disappear. You need to go there, where it would be easy to go to the sex.
Slow option. You can get acquainted with the companies (you with a friend, she is with a friend), one can one on one. The essence is romance. Walk at first - to communicate. Do you like to understand each other. You can sit to communicate in a cafe and drink champagne for acquaintance. Then deeper romance - with the transition to kisses. You can right where they drank champagne. You can take a walk somewhere in the dark: alleys of the park, bench or to the sea. After that, you can postpone the continuation of the next evening (especially if you feel that persistent will be departed from the romance model). Be sure to hold a girl to have no options left to meet and sleep with someone else this evening. The next evening continue. And it is desirable to seduce all the same on the second date. If it fails, then another attempt remains, but provided that you still have other spare options for girls. Because The probability of sex at the resort with each day of communication (until the acquaintance has not passed into sex) - does not grow, but falls. So you do not like it enough, and she searches parallel to other options.
scenario\u003e Beach
2 options: fast and slow.
Fast. You can get acquainted with the companies (couple per pair). Easy and just get acquainted. Joke or direct representation: "Hi, I am Vova from Odessa! How are you?" If communication goes well, starting to joke, focus, etc. To do this, you are given in the sea - algae - which you can throw, water - which can be splashing, sand that can be poured anywhere. Also, tanning cream gently rub into different parts of the body. All that causes or emotion or a pleasant bodily sensation. Go together to swim together and go to bold touch and actions in the water from games and pranks. Next, you can try to complete all this accelerated, even though water or to suffer to a more suitable place .. The transition time to bold actions in water 20-a0 a minute of communication is no longer. If it does not come out - look for the following.
Slow and romantic - it is better to get one on one. Probably for a long time, thoughtfully and with pleasure (with whom it does not work, look for another). Nice spend time. Time goes fast. During communication, sometimes it would be no discount touch to the girl. When you understand that communication has already been saturated - go to communication with bodies. You can make a massage (good there is a tan cream). You can start kissing or simply communicating on intimate topics reinforcing words - with your hands. When both are excited (the bodies are naked, but people around) - find a secluded place and get there even more bolder. Transition time to seduction - you can 3-5 hours. Yes, although in the evening, when the girl was held on the beach with a whole day on the beach, they admired and already want more. The main thing is to be interested in communicating.
In general, acquaintance and seduction options can be a lot. All do not list. Very much and ordinary dating - characteristic of the urban environment. Just take the phone, and then call:
scenario\u003e Acquaintance, phone taking, date
All the same as in the city. Exactly the same picap methods. Just caused easier and dates are appointed easier and faster.
\u003e Can there be serious intentions to contradict the rules of removal? :)
Yes, they interfere. Surprised intentions have the right to appear when there was already a seduction, some time has passed and you can already evaluate the girl comprehensively. And serious intentions at the stage of acquaintance - while you still have no choice with a girl - just funny.
I write these lines at the height of the summer holiday season. Many of you have planned rest at a Russian or foreign resort. You are going there without a satellite (you are still alone) and it is likely that you can have a novel in the resort. Resort novel-an integral component of the summer holiday for more than half of the inhabitants of European countries! These are statistical data. Easy flirt and dating ending with intimate the overwhelming majority of holidaymakers are considered to be a great way to paint your holiday with bright colors! If you are not Puritan and are ready to get acquainted with the man you like- read some tips that give psychologists in this case.
Strange phrase, but it means that in the resort you can dress and behave as you like to like. In ordinary life there is a lot of rules that dictate the behavior of people in society. On vacation you can forget about them - dress up, as you like, behave more freely and relaxed. But in addition to yourself. And if you like to learn the history of the country in which you relax, and your new resort friend with the word "antiquity" is shrieled in a smile and asks: "And what is it?", Then you should not spend the precious holiday time for the compilation of the company in the sports bar. Do not stop over yourself to impress. Stay yourself and enjoy the rest.
The same society mentioned above dictates the rules of conduct for women and men in society. Often we have to suppress our desires not to violate the established rules. And sometimes it simply does not take place to implement them. On vacation, there is an opportunity for a while forgetting these conventions, stop playing the usual role. Show others that they are ready for acquaintances and do not hesitate to meet the first if desired.
It is not worth "rushing to the pool with your head" with the first man. Choose, but without pickup. This is just a novel at the resort, not casting on the beauty and intelligence competition among holidaymakers, where you are sitting in the jury. Well, do not forget about responsibility for what is happening with you, then not to regret what happens.
Tip: You should not immediately post photos of your "adventures" in the social network. It is better after resting in a relaxed atmosphere of the house to review everything and then make the decision to lay out them, or delete forever.
Enjoy the moment without building far-reaching plans for the future with a new acquaintance. Even if you both "demolished the roof" from surpassed feelings, do not forget that this is just a resort novel, in which in 90% of cases out of 100 will not be a serious continuation.
Start yourself as you want. And your resort friend also leave the right to be the same. Forget at the time of rest about mutual commitments and about jealousy.
Roman at the resort is unthinkable without alcohol (well, if you are not an absolute sober). Good southern wine, delicious cocktails are practically mandatory amounts of summer vacation anywhere in the world. But if communicating without a dose of alcohol with a new acquaintance does not work, this is a reason for reflection. Alcohol, as you know, liberates. And even very dull feeling of self-preservation. Often, the joint screening ends with sex. Remember the means of protection even "losing your head" from passion.
Ideally, it is best to immediately talk to a new acquaintance that the novel in the resort is only a short episode in your life and after the end of the holidays, everyone will again begin his usual life. Without continuing to communicate. Because the relationship in the resort is not at all the same as the relationship with the same person after returning from vacation. Their relationship, it will be necessary to build anew. Well, if you suddenly you like it, you can try. Everything happens in life, it is possible that you have a rare case when the resort romance is converted into a long serious relationship. I personally have one such a novel ended with a wedding, and another acquaintance in the Crimea after a stormy novel turned into a long and very pleasant connection with a woman from another country. We still have very close to her, despite the fact that the acquaintance took place in the distant 1994 ...
How to get acquainted on the beach Read in the article
In conclusion, as usual, a bit of humor:
"Who is a massage therapist? This is a man who receives money from a woman for what others get in the face .. "
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Everyone is eagerly awaiting the vacation period, especially joyful if he also falls for the warm season. This means that you can go on the sea and relaxed to relax. Perhaps you are already tired every year from your friends and colleagues to hear the same story, they say, got acquainted to the sea, a resort novel, and so on. Maybe it's time to take advantage of your holiday truly? So, in this article I will tell you how to meet a girl on the sea.
For a girl, rest on the sea has halo of romance. Although each understands that the resort romance is usually configured, but still calm in his heart the hope that it is there it to meet with an excellent prince from another part of the world, who will take it with him.
As you can see, everyone wants to meet the sea. It is important to choose a suitable resort in advance. It should not be a big coastal city - from the nightclub to your hotel it is much better to go walking. In addition, a small resort town or even the village is a place where the entertainment and romance is saturated literally everything, and do not need to be distracted by other targets. In the big city, your attention will be collected only in certain places where it is possible to get far away.
So, how to get acquainted with the girl in the resort? First of all, it is important for you to understand that there is plenty of seats at sea for dating:
Many ride their holidays with a view to just relax. But there are people who depart in other cities and even countries for a sex tour. A wonderful goal for a real pickper. And nothing will prevent you from combining pleasant with pleasant. You will spend good time, and you will also be surrounded by beautiful girls. What can be better?
Let's start with the simplest, that is, dating is already at the place of residence - in a hotel or at the hotel. It's not necessary to walk here far away, but you can find the simplest reason and get acquainted with the neighbor. For example, help a lonely girl raise luggage on the floor, ask about local attractions or even leave an invitation to a date under the door.
Especially all this is effective when you rest abroad, where Russian-speaking people in a different linguistic environment come closer. But it will be suitable for acquaintance and in the Russian resort. After all, many lonely holidaymakers are not at all away, so that someone makes them companies in walks around the city and on excursions. The obvious advantage of dating the hotel is that the person who lives with you next door always causes more confidence. In addition, it is more convenient for meetings.
An equally wonderful option to start a resort novel is to get acquainted on excursions. This option is suitable if the girl is actively photographed against the background of nature and attractions, asks a lot of questions as a guide, with interest is learning museum exhibits. This is a reason to approach and shine with erudition or sense of humor. Moreover, excursions in Russian resorts often disappoint vacationers, and therefore the girl can bother. Then the option to offer her to pave your own route together.
The next way is. Usually girls sunbathe and bathe afternoon. And in the evening there are beautiful dresses and go into the light. And it is not always a bar or disco. Many romantic individuals really prefer evening walks, contemplation of the sea and sunset. It in the city you may have a doubt if you should approach the girl on the street. At sea, this question is not even worth it. To get acquainted with the girl, you can ask how to find the right street or shop, or just find out what time it is. And you can suggest stroll together to a well-known attraction or make a joint selfie against the sea.
A great way to get acquainted to the sea is to visit the cafe in the evening with live music, for example, order a beautiful song for the girl you like. And even better - to invite a stranger on the dance and treat drinking.
Girls traditionally spend a lot of time on the beach. However, here they first pay attention to men with a good figure. If you boast an excellent physique, you can not, then you should show activity, for example, to participate in some competitions, competitions, actively use attractions. Girls like active young people, especially if in some competition you can participate together.
There are also cons of such dating, but they should not strain any guy, nor a girl:
