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Why doesn't pickup training work with pretty girls? The whole truth about trainings on pickup and seduction of women Pickup master courses.

"Why bump and repeat the mistakes that have already been made for you?"

Roman Vinilov.

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Have you ever wondered why pickup trainings are so popular - and not only in Moscow and St. Petersburg?

It's simple. First, people are social animals, loneliness kills us. Secondly, the reproductive instinct is one of the main, and its implementation is the subconscious goal of everyone. It turns out that dating, seduction and building relationships are almost the most pressing problem of humanity.

First, the fact: pickup training can make almost any man successful among women. Try to challenge it. I'll make a reservation right away that we are talking about good pick-trainings. It is quite simple to distinguish between such ones - you need to see how many years the project has existed, what coaches it has and what they say about them. If it exists for at least a year, then it is not difficult to find reviews, if less, it is better not to risk it.

The benefits of pickup trainings for men

The ability to meet girls, success in relationships and communication with the opposite sex is not something that is given to us from birth. Each person gets bumps, and someone is faced with problems in their youth, which can have an effect on the rest of their lives. You can go this way, or you can sign up for a pickup training - in Moscow, St. Petersburg, Novosibirsk or any other city.

When we need to master a foreign language, we go to a special school, we try to surround ourselves with native speakers. We attend public speaking courses and learn effective communication to achieve our goals. Pickup training for men is also a way to learn, in this case, all the intricacies of communicating with the opposite sex. This science has been developing for many years, and its carriers have something to teach any man.

Sooner or later, every man will want to find "the one" or simply bring more sex into his life. And if you are reading this article, you probably decided to figure it out on your own. And although the Internet has long been full of articles on this topic, pickup training is much more effective. Mentoring effect. The coach will point you to mistakes. Discard what doesn't work. Saves you time by guiding you towards achieving results. If you practice thoughtlessly, then you may not achieve results or stop at the first successes - like those who go to the gym. It's no secret that working with a trainer and working independently are two different things.

Why is it difficult to achieve a result by independently studying a pickup truck, if there are so many materials on the Internet? Will explain. There is fundamental knowledge, theoretical base and practice. Professionals write articles answering specific common questions based on fundamental knowledge and transferred experience. This fundamental knowledge is inaccessible to most people, and it would take several years to learn it, plus the same amount of practice.

What you encounter may differ from typical situations. Reading articles, you do not get feedback and cannot immediately correct mistakes or determine what you are doing wrong.

What pick-up trainings give:

  • They will teach you how to meet girls, overcome the fear of approaching a lady you like anywhere. Allows you to understand how the psychology of a girl at this moment works.
  • and her seduction. Pickup training allows a man to become what girls like and who they want.
  • Building a relationship with a girl you like, how to behave and take such a role in a relationship so that they are harmonious and happy.

What else can a pickup do?

  • Return your girlfriend, make her fall in love with yourself again. Change yourself so that she sees in you again.

Why is it so important?

I will say it again: a man can learn to meet and communicate with girls himself. But he will inevitably follow a path of mistakes and disappointments. The problem is that relationships with the opposite sex are one of the main troubles of the male part of this world. Love can sometimes interfere with fate in an irreversible way. And now, stuffing bumps on your own, are you sure that you can not lose your head from another beauty, and if you fail, you won’t get injured for life? The male ego is very easy to hurt. Classes with a coach will allow you to reach your goal in the shortest possible way, avoiding fatal mistakes.

If we are talking about the return of a beloved girl, then I can say that the cases are generally all unique and require an individual approach. But the statistics of returns when working with a coach is amazing.

A pickup truck in Russia is not so many years old, but we have already gone through a revision of views. If earlier he was aimed at a momentary result and was a real salvation, for example, for students (how to meet and seduce a girl at no cost), now the goals are slightly different. More and more adult men come to learn a pickup, knowing what they want. The approach itself is changing. Instead of an outer shell, we are working on the development of a man in all aspects.

The most interesting thing is that pick-up trainings, as a result, have a positive effect in all other spheres of life: communication with people, business, style, sports and others.

How to get to the pickup training?

I hope you understand the benefits of pickup trainings for men. You should not be prejudiced against this phenomenon, if only because this is a really effective method to change your life, becoming a truly happy and successful person.

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Do you want to be successful with girls and don't know where to start? In this article, we asked one of our regular authors, Andrey Vysotsky, to talk about his rich experience in seducing girls. You will learn where to start your journey in a pickup truck: what to read, where you can learn, what you should pay attention to, what mistakes lie ahead of you.

What is this article or author's introduction

I will not be able to cram all my knowledge and experience into one article. But I can tell you about the fastest ways to achieve the goal, and about the possible mistakes that lie in wait for you ahead.

Is it possible to learn a pickup truck yourself

So you want to do great with the girls. It doesn't matter if you want to wake up with a new beauty every morning or you need one one and only one. In any case, you have only three ways:

Sitting at home on your favorite couch and waiting for success to come to you by itself

Are you waiting for fortune to shower you with money, and pretty girls line up to jump into your bed? This will never happen.

The only thing that comes by itself is old age. Everything else needs to be achieved. It is difficult (sometimes very difficult). To do this, you will have to pull yourself out of your comfort zone: learn new things, try new things, change your habits, change your social circle. If you want results, you have to sweat. This is the law of life.

Go to a special training where you will be taught everything

I think this is the best option of all. It has two decisive advantages:

  1. Feedback. Live communication with the coach is an important part of the training. The coach will always point out your mistakes to you. If you have any questions, he will answer, tell, show, explain the incomprehensible.
  2. Motivation. Often, all you need to be successful is a magic kick in the ass. A good coach always has a stick and a carrot (which is stale and gets hit) with which he will make you move in the right direction.

But, unfortunately, there are several serious disadvantages:

  1. It is expensive. Good trainings are expensive. If you don't have a good financial background, nothing shines for you.
  2. There are many charlatans. Finding a good coach is a difficult task. There are many different pseudo-coaches, and dubious specialists who will take your money, but will not teach you anything, because they themselves do not know how to do anything. I advise you to contact trainers who have been in this topic for a long time, who have already developed a good reputation. Another option is serious organizations with a wide representation and their own crowd, for example, RMES.
  3. Not available everywhere. The same RMES members conduct their trainings only in large cities. If you are a resident of a small town, you have additional problems with travel to the training site and accommodation.

Learn everything on your own

If you have not grown together with a good coach, this is not a reason to give up. You can learn everything yourself.

You will not have feedback and no one will give you a magic pendel (except yourself), but if you are decisive enough, you will definitely get your way. And in this article I will help you do it.

Where to look for information

The network contains a huge amount of free and paid information about seducing girls: books, blogs, forums, mailings, articles, etc.

Digging up this pile of slag and finding useful information in it is a very difficult task. But I also have good news: I already did it for you. Here's what I recommend reading.

Free books

On the Internet you can find many useful and interesting and, most importantly, free books from different trainers. Here are some of the options that I find most helpful for a beginner.

Egor Sheremetyev

My first impression of Yegor is a nondescript guy who says something about seduction - nothing special. When I got to know him better, I realized that the first impression is deceiving. Whoever says anything, but he knows how to communicate with girls phenomenally. Here is a video where he immediately meets a girl right in a traffic jam:

He conducts many different events: trainings, master classes, bootcamps, etc. including "Bachelor Party in Asia" in Pattaya. Here he himself talks about it:

In short, he definitely has a lot to learn. I advise you to definitely read his free book "Secrets of Successful Dating on VKontakte". The book is very interesting: little water, a lot of practical information and examples of successful phrases and dialogues from real correspondence. In order to download a book, you need to go and leave an e-mail address. After that, you will receive an email with a link to download the pdf file.

Another must-read book by the same author is A Little Kick to Big Sex. It contains a lot of interesting things about how to get to know girls correctly: how to approach, what to say, how to overcome shyness, etc. To download.

Roman Vinilov

I've been following Roman's activities for a long time. He's been on the topic of seduction and pickup for 10 years already. Author of courses, seminars and trainings. Trainer, coach, writer, etc. I see no point in listing his entire track record - read it yourself, if it’s interesting. Here are some of his books that will be useful to read:

  1. Effective dating. There is a lot of useful information about dating: how to invite, where to go, how to behave, what to talk about, etc.
  2. 7 steps to building a relationship with a girl. All about how to build a harmonious relationship and remain the best man for her.
  3. How to surprise any girl. More than 70 pages of various examples for all occasions, which will help to surprise her and make a good impression.

The best seduction coach in Russia will reveal her secrets to you

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If you want to learn what most seduction coaches dream of ... If you want people from your social circle to look at you with undisguised respect ... If you are ready for the girls you would call "10 out of 10" surrounded you and confessed their love, demanding nothing in return, but only giving ...

And if you have not only the desire, but also the appropriate opportunities, then I have extremely valuable information especially for you.

A few facts about what has already happened in individual training with different men:

  • A complicated and running divorce process is allowed, in which the spouse intended to break the family and sue the business. She changed her mind.
  • The man wanted to seduce celebrities and successful models. After 5 classes, several miss of the largest Russian cities were on his track record.
  • Relationships have been established, terminated at the initiative of the woman with the wording: "never, do you hear, never appear again"
  • Overcome the midlife crisis, when many external achievements did not correspond to the internal level of harmony
  • A successful man in business dreamed of establishing the sexual sphere and filling it with many women, often at the same time. Everything worked out
  • The man was used to shining in business, but he was surrounded by the most ordinary girls. The bar is now extremely high

These are just a few recent cases. Pavel has a lot of success stories in his arsenal, but the specifics of his work are such that the confidentiality of these successes is the basis of his work.

This is why these people achieve these results:

  • Forget about techniques, practices and tools. We will work closely with YOUR personality, pulling out exactly what will work for you and what will remain with you after the completion of our work.
  • My seven years of experience as a seduction coach will give you the confidence to have answers to all your questions. The answers are in practice.
  • I am not a psychologist, I do not take money for theory and emotional shake-up. My criterion is the result.
  • I am very busy and I do not take everyone with me. I'm not bragging. Therefore, only after an interview with you, I will decide whether we will work together. Prepare to be honest.
  • Even if you do not get to work individually with me, but work with another coach (currently there are three coaches in the Pickup.Ru team admitted to individual work), I will closely monitor you and make adjustments to the classes, if necessary.
  • If you are interested in the list of my sexual victories, then it is quite extensive. There have been so many things over the years. But bragging is not my rule. Let your result be the best criterion of my experience.
  • And one more thing, one last thing: call only when you are sure that you are READY. I am ready to face my goal, dream or desire in my life.

With all my heart, I would like to thank Paul again for all the knowledge and skills that he taught me. And this knowledge, as well as the result that was obtained during the training, far exceeds any costs. And, as often happens in life, you understand that if you want to achieve something, but you cannot do it yourself, it is best to turn to the services of the most experienced specialist. Let it be quite expensive, but the result will exceed your expectations. Yes, great results come with high costs.

Schedule an individual interview to see if we can help you.

Your initial contact with the opposite sex is the most important stage of seduction, which determines the possibility of further dating, sexual and love relationships. In the first seconds of a conversation, a woman has a desire or unwillingness to communicate with you, these moments create the foundation for further relationships. If from the first words of communication you make mistakes, then you should not hope for the full development of relations in the future.

To ensure the result in acquaintance and the development of relationships, any seduction technique must be, on the one hand, effective, and on the other, easy to learn and use. The pickup training of the Dating Academy is a practical seduction system with the development of knowledge and skills in real conditions. Live practice with unfamiliar girls (who may not be in the mood, shy away from a conversation, object or completely ignore you) allows you to achieve a guaranteed result in the shortest possible time (as opposed to theoretical studies and role-playing games).

Individual form of study

To achieve stable results, the training uses an individual form of training. The speed and quality of mastering the material is always better with an individual approach - this is shown not only by physiology and psychology, but also by the long experience of teaching at training sessions of acquaintance and seduction. The seminar system (or group system with elements of practice) has many disadvantages. For example, a pickup trainer cannot constantly be near the student and adjust the learning process in accordance with his psycho-emotional state. The coach cannot control for each student the quality of the exercises performed and the level of the girls chosen, as a result of which the trainee gets used not only to constant mistakes, but also to one category of women (uncertainty is developed in front of the rest). For the same reason, the trainer cannot calculate the optimal training program and, as a rule, provides general knowledge for the entire group.

At the Academy of Dating, high-class specialists with a higher profile education, many years of personal and teaching experience in the field of gender psychology of relationships and pickup are engaged in your training. All pickup trainers of the Academy are full-time employees of the center, for whom training of acquaintance and seduction is a permanent activity. This allows them to practice seduction on a daily basis, improve existing and test promising teaching methods, taking into account the requirements and wishes of graduates of previous trainings.

The selection of a personal trainer for a pickup truck (taking into account your age, character traits and wishes) responsible for the learning outcome takes place during the interview process.

Obligations and guarantees

Even if it seems to you that your problem is insoluble, we know how to help you. For this, the center employs professionals who have been involved in pickup since its inception in Russia and have many years of experience in teaching in real conditions. Solving complex problems is our daily work, so the Dating Academy guarantees:

  • Modern applied material. We do not use obsolete and well-known material for a long time. Therefore, during the training you will not hear phrases like "Are you a pick-up artist?" or "People have already approached me with similar phrases." On a date, a girl will not round her eyes in indignation when she hears stories from you that another guy sang to her a couple of days ago.
  • Ease of assimilation of the material. Each technique studied in the training is accompanied by video materials from previous trainings, filmed with a hidden camera in real conditions. Even at the stage of theoretical training, you will not only hear, but also see how you should successfully meet girls, conduct dates, use touch, move on to kissing, take the girl to your home, etc. Clear step-by-step seduction schemes will allow you to understand the ease of seduction and avoid common mistakes.
  • Real practice. The training is based on hands-on exercises in real-life conditions. Coaches don’t fantasize about pickup trucks, don’t lecture at the blackboard, don’t use desk exercises, and don’t ignore practice. You don't have to do inappropriate exercises (like singing songs on the subway or asking girls stupid questions). From the first lesson at the Dating Academy, you will meet and seduce girls for real.
  • Comfort in learning. You can independently choose a place for practical training, take additional breaks, use classrooms (which are located next to the training sites): leave unnecessary things in an individual closet or safe, relax with a cup of tea or coffee - all this is provided free of charge.
  • Honest teaching. We do not use staged studio photographs or materials from glossy magazines, we do not hire female models as entourage mannequins, we do not slip prostitutes to our students and do not force them to meet idle girls who are looking for entertainment at someone else's expense.
  • A responsibility. We do not accuse students of laziness and inability to assimilate the material. Finding an effective and convenient training method for you is our job. Even if after a few years you need to consult on a relationship with a girl, you can turn to any specialist of the Dating Academy for free for help.
  • Refunds. If you did not achieve results in dating and seduction at the training, then we will return all the money to you without compensation and commissions.
  • Confidentiality. If you wish, you can study anonymously. You do not need to provide your full name and additional personal information. I will not film you or make audio recordings with your participation.

Basic course requirements

The training takes place in practice in real conditions. From the first hour of class, you will have effective acquaintances. To do this, at the training you must have:

  • Mobile phone with a fully charged battery. You will have to get to know a lot, often write down the girls' phone numbers and communicate with them on the phone. To prevent your phone from letting you down at the most inopportune moment, we recommend charging it 100% in advance.
  • Compact notepad and pen. There is no theory that lasts for many hours during the training. You gain knowledge in the form of applied information, ready for immediate application in practice. It is often necessary to take notes and write down important moments in real conditions - in between meetings with girls. A compact notebook is indispensable in such conditions.
  • Means for fresh breath. If, when you meet, you really like a girl, you can immediately go on a date with her. Since romantic encounters are often accompanied by passionate kisses, mints or mouth spray should always be there.
  • Contraceptives. Effective seduction schemes contribute to the rapid development of relationships with girls. If you are in dating training, you will need to carry condoms with you at every class.

Training program

Below is a sample training program in real conditions (adjusted in accordance with the requirements and wishes of the student):

  • Preparation for practice.
  • Selection and analysis of a place for effective acquaintances.
  • Non-verbal behavior prior to contact.
  • Skill of professional acquaintance with one woman, with two or more women.
  • The skill of professional acquaintance in a cafe, in a restaurant (at the request of the client), in a club (at the request of the client), a shopping center, on the street, in noisy places.
  • Choosing a dominant or equilateral position during contact.
  • Targeted communication and selection of fallbacks to impress.
  • Setting the comfort distance.
  • Calibration of a woman for communication.
  • Setting up verbal and non-verbal communication in the process of seduction
  • Using speech strategies to liberate the interlocutor.
  • Calling subconscious trust at all stages of dating and dating.
  • Creating favorable and using random situations for positive emotional reactions.
  • Revealing the tastes and values ​​of the girl at the moment.
  • Dramatic reduction in communication distance.
  • Logical belief.
  • Forced influence, pressure on the instincts of a woman.
  • Arousing in a woman a constant interest in new meetings.
  • Bypassing or correcting the woman's value system.
  • Conducting communication in difficult situations.
  • Establishing Confident Behavior.
  • Techniques for stopping internal dialogue.
  • Practicing self-control schemes in critical situations.
  • Blocking negative emotions.
  • Organization of a date immediately after meeting.
  • An invitation to a date by phone.
  • Elimination of possible resistance when communicating on the phone.
  • Selection and analysis of a place for an optimal date.
  • Dating with the subsequent development of intimate relationships.
  • Carrying out a date in a cafe, in a restaurant (at the request of the client), in a club (at the request of the client), in a shopping center, on the street, in a park, in noisy places.
  • Development of relationships with one woman, with two women (at the request of the client).
  • Behavior in case of a decrease in interest on the part of a woman.
  • Building a systemic argumentation for the possible resistance of a woman.
  • Neutralization of test questions, negative remarks and banter.
  • Pressure on a woman's psycho-complexes.
  • Non-verbal actions during resistance.

Training schedule

Thanks to individual training and a personalized schedule, you can study in the morning, afternoon or evening on any day convenient for you (weekday or weekend). Depending on the employment of your work and personal time, the training schedule is built according to one of the following schemes:

  • Floating. The time for the next lesson you agree with the instructor at the end of the current lesson.
  • Intense. Training for 2-6 consecutive days by increasing the training time to 4-10 hours a day (for example, completing training over the weekend). The schedule is drawn up before the start of classes for the entire learning process. Such a scheme is preferable when there is a time limit (for example, vacation does not allow you to allocate more than a week for training).

In addition to classes with an instructor, the training includes practical homework assignments. In the process of independent training, you can remotely consult with specialists and receive recommendations for correcting your behavior model. With a floating training scheme, homework is completed between classes, and with an intensive scheme, at the end of the practical part of the training. At the same time, the effectiveness of training does not depend on the selected schedule.

Training options

  • Acquaintance
    Duration: 20 hours (10 lessons, 2 hours each).
    Cost: 500 USD
  • Dating + Dating
    Duration: 40 hours (20 lessons, 2 hours each).
    Cost: 1000 USD

Sign up for pickup training

You can sign up for the training by calling the Dating Academy or through the contact form (the trainer will contact you within 48 hours).

Dating is our life. Every day we communicate with people, we meet on the street. Whether you find a girlfriend or boyfriend depends on this skill. I love hanging out with beautiful girls. They charge! In addition, they are smart, decent and always help me become even better in communication with girls and people. I easily start chatting with youtube bloggers, celebrities, models, dancers. This skill I call communication, communication, pickup, seduction. I decided to post a photo, because you use them to make the decision “Is it worth trusting this person?”


Maria

Masha sings great. Sometimes I write to her the question "Masha, do you sing at karaoke today?" After a positive answer, I go to enjoy the beautiful voice. Masha is a deep person: to consult about life, how to do the right thing.


Dasha

Nice girl from Samara. When I visit this city, I invite Dasha to go rollerblading. I am pleased with the openness of this girl, despite her strong relationship with the guy.



Ksyusha

Model from Moscow. We work together on photo shoots. Once again, I will say - a girl's modesty is directly proportional to her beauty.


Valentin Petukhov

An Apple tech columnist on YouTube with over 6 million subscribers gave me 5 minutes instructions on how to blog. Soon I will make a video of our dialogue.


Garik Sukachev

In Gorky Park we were roller-skating, saw him out of the crowd and decided to drive up. Stylish, modest and positive person.


Rustam Solntsev

Participant of the Dom-2 project. Walked with a friend in the center, near the Bolshoi Theater. I saw Rustam talking on the phone and came up. Strangely, he praised me at the end of "Handsome". I will not judge the orientation ...


Mike Tyson

We stopped at a gas station in Volgograd, and Tyson met us with a positive smile. You never know where you can meet Tyson.


Alexander Nosik

Theater and film actor. In general, he is a positive person. When I was taking a selfie, I changed my facial expressions. In addition to humor, I consider him a very smart person.