Every girl dreams of a happy marriage in which she can fully rely on her loved one. Unfortunately, not every marriage turns out to be happy, and men after the wedding can afford to cheat.
Psychologists note that by the behavior of a man, you can understand whether he will cheat on his chosen one. There are obvious signs of infidelity, when women begin to suspect the faithful spouses of lying, but they occur after a certain period of marriage. It is possible to avoid a spoiled fate, but for this you need not be afraid to face the truth and not dismiss the obvious things inherent in traitors. Thus, girls will be able to refuse marriage to a man who will not respect them, and will make a choice in favor of a caring and loving man.
The partner’s disrespectful attitude towards his own mother should alert the girl, because such behavior can affect further relationships, and the guy will transfer disrespect to his future wife. It is unlikely that such a person will respect women if he is already showing negativity towards those closest to him.
People can change, although this happens very rarely. However, by and large, a person is not inclined to change if he does not seriously think about it. Many of us are not able to accept a man for who he is. A woman maintains a relationship with a man, hoping that he will change. Often it is hope that keeps a woman with a man. Can hopes be justified?
This is a question I often get asked by my clients. Faced with betrayal, humiliation, rudeness, a woman does not know what to do. And when she finally decides to leave, the man comes to her with apologies and promises to improve. And then a natural question arises: is it worth giving him a second chance?
Client story
One young woman described her situation this way. The man humiliated her, sometimes beat her, scolded her, and generally treated her rather badly. She lived with him for 7 years. And after 7 years, she realized that she was very tired of all this. He went on another voyage (he was a sailor - that is, he periodically left). And she suddenly realized that she no longer wanted to remain in such a relationship. She was tired of being humiliated. She felt an inner emptiness and realized that the feelings had passed. And survived it all, woman began to pay attention to other men, she even began a new relationship, and she decided that she no longer wants to live as before and does not want to be with this person.
I want to note that the couple lived in a civil marriage, and the man never proposed to my client, which also overshadowed her life with him. And after she stopped clinging to the relationship, he, returning from the flight, offered her to marry him, on his knees he begged to forgive him and promised to treat her differently - they say, he realized everything:
- Forgive me, please, I understand everything, I don’t want to lose you, you are very dear to me, I really need you, marry me. I only see you as my wife, I don't need anyone else! I ask you to forgive me...
Is it worth giving a man a chance? Will he change?
People can change, although this happens very rarely. However, by and large, a person is not inclined to change. And something very impressive, shock, stress should happen: for example, a person falls into a coma, and when he comes out of it, he really changes very much. He changes values, outlook on life, priorities, etc. That is, very strong stress can make a person do a huge inner work, when in fact there is a rethinking of life, and the psyche, the structure of the “I” are transformed. And a person really begins to behave differently, treat people in a completely different way. By the way, in general, in old age there is a rethinking of values and priorities.
In this example, it is very difficult to say whether a man will change or not. The process is unpredictable. Maybe he really loves the woman so much that he doesn't want to lose her. When he realized the possibility of a complete rupture, something inside him clicked, and a transformation took place. Or perhaps this is an ordinary desire to keep what is leaving, and this desire is momentary, and when everything returns to normal, then the changes will end there.
But I would draw your attention to one important point in this story: look, when for 7 years a woman loved a man, endured everything, endured everything, she never had the thought that she was tired, she did not pay attention to men. And then suddenly she began to notice other gentlemen, and she had the feeling that she had fallen out of love.
With love,
Irina Gavrilova Dempsey
In this article, I want to tell you woman why men cheat or can cheat on you.
This article is very closely related to this one: Be sure to read it too! Study. Realize. Take on board and put the advice into practice.
The very first, most basic, because of which there may be a betrayal on the part of a man - the lack of quality regular sex. Woman, understand, realize yo-mae, the harmonious development of relations is possible subject to the presence of constant high-quality sex. Without sex - 100% no.
Sex for us men is a basic need. We are men, that's how we are. We are so created. We are animals. Wild animals. It is in us. Lust, debauchery, mate, etc. It's within us. In short, I'm telling you like a man - sex is important. Sex is needed all the time. And sex should be awesome (cool), so that the roof is blown straight away, so that the man gets high, gets maximum pleasure.
You must satisfy your beast, your man - 100%. Not 50% and not even 99%, 100% - this is what you must learn once and for all. You understand, if you don’t give something to your man, your beast, then what he really wants, he will find it on the side. Another woman will give it to him. Give what you didn't give. Do you need it? No, so satisfy 100%.
A man must always want you! Constantly. Want. Fuck! You have to turn him on. Excite. He's got to blow the roof off of you. If this does not happen, and there is no regular quality sex, there will be no relationship with this man. Dot. Therefore, either you solve this problem, or wait - parting / betrayal / quarrels, etc. etc. 100% guarantee to you.
IMPORTANT: at the very beginning of a relationship, everything is new - sex, kissing, touching, spoken words, etc. etc. but, over time, all this loses its charm and its colors, and you will get bored with each other (even in terms of sex). So, it is very important not to allow this boredom. It is important not to be idle.
It is important to urgently get rid of it (boredom, monotony, etc.). Relationships are a constant work, both from the side of the man and from the side of the woman. Understand? Without this constant work, it will not be possible to maintain harmonious full-fledged relationships.
Woman, I have a question for you. Do you consider yourself sexy? That's straight, real sexy girl?! Look, here's your task, go to the mirror, strip completely naked and look at yourself.
What do you see there? Do you consider yourself f*cking? Sexy? Are you enjoying yourself? From your body? Just let's adequately assess the situation, honestly, because this is important for you in the first place.
In case you are shy about something, you are ashamed of your body, you think that you have some shortcomings, etc. etc. - we, men, will immediately feel it during sex.
Do you know why we feel it? Because you convey it. If you don’t like yourself, you are not completely satisfied with yourself, if you are embarrassed about something, etc. you will not be fully liberated during sex, you will not be able to completely relax and get the maximum pleasure from sex.
Because of this, the man will also not be able to enjoy. A man will see this in you, he will feel that something is wrong, in general, this atmosphere is transmitted to him. Understand? As a result, there will be no quality sex. And if there is no sex and quality sex, there is no relationship.
Lack of sex or poor quality sex is one of the first reasons for cheating. A man will go to someone who will give him cool, awesome sex. Such sex where he will demolish the tower. And cool sex will be given by the one who gets high from herself, who is liberated, revealed to the fullest. Who is feminine and sexy.
Here is what I want to convey to you:
Do you understand what I want to convey to you? If you don't like something about yourself, then how should a man like you? Fix it. Instantly. The man must want you! Constantly. Want. Fuck! You have to turn him on. The man is a beast. Animal. He needs a woman! Female.
You should not be ashamed of something there, yourself, positions, process, sex itself, etc. etc. Otherwise, don't expect anything good. 100% guarantee to you. In many ways, a woman should feel her man, what he likes, how he wants, what is best for him, etc. etc. and take the initiative.
There must be variety. Necessarily. In different places. In different poses. At different times. Clothing, stockings, underwear, etc. also plays a role. In short, there should be no monotony. Something new in a different way with new colors. Surprises, romance. On everything and everything again.
Remember, relationships are ongoing work. At both sides. There will be no work - the end.
Now it is very fashionable and popular, all these strong independent women, careerists, work, I’m all on my own, I don’t need anything, I don’t need help, I decide everything myself, I control everything, well, in general, in many ways, dominant behavior, behavior man. But you're not a man, you're a woman. And as a result, it turns out that you are a hybrid, a woman-man. Do you think it's ok? Not at all.
Strong independent women = not happy. What is the use of the fact that she (or you) has achieved everything herself or will achieve it when she (you) will be unhappy in the end?
What's the point of everything when you're not happy? BUT? Female. Answer my question. What's the point? You were born a girl. You are not a man. Understand. Your strength is in your femininity. Understand and be aware of this.
When you behave like a man, you lose yourself as a woman, your femininity. Understand? You're only making it worse. Be yourself. Be a woman. Let yourself be happy. It is most important.
We men don't like hybrids (women-men). It's horrible. A man needs a woman. Understand? A man doesn't need a man (fu, byaka), a man needs you as a woman. A woman is inspiration, strength, energy for a man. And you need to pump the femininity in yourself!
You women are a huge motivation for us. For your sake, I want to move mountains, achieve success in life, give gifts, make surprises, etc. etc. everything is largely for you. For everything to be fine with you, you must be a woman for your man. Source of energy. His inspiration. Rear. By force. Understand that. Understand. A high-ranking man will achieve everything in life (and with the help of your help, your femininity), if he has not already achieved it. Understand? The main result is that you are happy and he is happy. Why do you need to be a man if there is no happiness? Think...
When you are on man, you don't let your man feel like a man. In addition, you lose your femininity. Quarrels, scandals, misunderstandings, problems in sex, etc. begin. you only make it worse. Understand? Only worse! You are a woman and your strength is in femininity. Understand and you will be happy. Embrace your femininity! Bring out the woman in you. Upgrade!
That is one of the main reasons. Uniformity in everything. Got used. Bored. Tired of each other. Boredom. Yearning. Nothing new and such in the new colors does not happen. It puts up a cross. Relationships are a constant work on the part of both. And men. And women. Forgetting about it is impossible. Dot. Even if the man is already yours, or vice versa, the man is your woman, you need to work. In a relationship, everything should not be boring, everything is banal and everything is predictable, otherwise failure, parting, quarrels. treason, etc. end.
Woman, understand. The man is an animal. Wild animal. Beast. You can be the best for him, in everything, but he just hasn’t worked up yet and wants other women, wants a quantity, i.e. wants to get fucked enough, fuck as many females as possible. Understand? It has nothing to do with you.
I’m telling you, you can be just perfect in everything, but if a man doesn’t work up, nothing will come of it. You just chose the wrong partner for yourself, there's nothing you can do about it. That's why it's very important (for you women) to choose the right partner for you. Not to be next on the list...
For a relationship, you need to take a man. Ideally, the finished product. Wealthy, with a bubble, etc. to keep the risk to a minimum. A man without money is not a man. Dot. The main function of a man is to get money. That's all. If a man cannot get money, what kind of a man is he?
A lot more needs to be punched about a man in order to understand what it is. A man (high-ranking) has the following qualities: courage, responsibility, powerful / strong inner state, courage, leadership, and much more.
Remember: a high-ranking man needs the same high-ranking woman. You must match him. For example, if a man strives for success, develops in everything, works, etc. and you are not a woman, no matter how you develop, this is the end. One hundred percent. You understand, a man and a woman must correspond to each other. Therefore, when choosing a partner, common interests, outlook on life, level of intelligence, etc. are important, in general, each person is looking for a similar person in many ways.
You go in for sports, you have a healthy diet, and in general you are healthy = but your man doesn’t, he has beer, cigarettes, etc. (or vice versa) = no relations here are possible in principle. You can't get along when there are different values, everything is different. It is forbidden.
Well, I'll tell you this, you will feel a real worthy man (high-ranking man).
In the vast majority of cases, women choose women with eggs between their legs. Boys, guys, boys, etc. but not like a man. This is one of the most common mistakes. For a decent man is hard to find. Very difficult. Well, seriously.
High-ranking men = very few. These are in huge short supply. There are a lot of low-ranking ones, so most of them come across. If you want a high-ranking man for yourself, you yourself become a high-ranking woman. And so, each creature has a pair, and they get who they are.
In addition, I want to say that all women are still overly emotional. Especially the young ones. Oh god. For you, emotions, feelings, that's just everything. Give you emotions (feelings), feed you with promises and that's it, you are naive fucked. Beauty, feelings (emotions) are cool. I understand, but all these feelings and emotions eventually end sooner or later, a year will pass, for example, and that’s it. And you just ah * eat how you were with this ragamuffin imbicile, who no one even call him like, but fucked you for a whole year.
The man must be chosen very carefully. Not in the way that the vast majority of women choose, because the vast majority themselves are low-ranking females and receive the same males.
If you forget about your man, don't expect anything good.
That's it. A man needs to feel that you need him. That without it - you can’t and you can’t at all. Not a fucking day. That he is the main one among all of you. Number 1.
You can go about your business, you have friends there, hobbies, entertainment, in general, you live a full life as a person, but at the same time a man should feel that you need him. If a man feels that he is not so needed or not needed at all, I tell you - do not expect anything good.
There will be scandals, quarrels, betrayal - and there will be someone who will warm him up, who will be there, give what you didn’t give, give this caress, tenderness, attention, care, support, faith, will be there, etc. understand?
Is that what you need? Do you need change? Don't need it, so don't let that shit happen.
Nuance: here it is still important to observe the measure (edge).
There should not be your glut (excess), where you are always like a dog on its hind legs, and vice versa, there should not be a shortage (deficit) where you are not and are not. There must be a middle ground. It is important.
You're a woman. And your strength is in your femininity. Your beauty, external, your bodily forms, etc. = are very important to us. You must be forever desirable and sexy for your man.
This item is related to item #1. (sex). If you do not excite your man = the end.
You can't stop looking after yourself. Look after. Take care of your beauty. It is forbidden. You're a woman. Do not forget about it. And do not think that if the man is yours, then you can already relax and that's it, hammer in the bolt. Not!
And none of your excuses will help you, watch yourself constantly, it's only in your interests. This relationship is a constant work on the part of both. Never, never forget about it.
A man, by the way, should do the same (on a regular basis), but the article is for women ...
Very often women lie to themselves. But I'm ok. I don't need to change anything, etc. woman, be honest with yourself. If it’s really ok, you plow, work, follow, etc. - you're smart, well done, if not - pasha, work hard, don't start it, never. And remember: there is no limit to perfection.
Arguments kill relationships. It is a fact. To relieve stress, a man can easily go to his mistress. Do you need it? You don’t need it, so less * bi brain, less drinking, more mutual understanding, trust, work on your relationships, cover each other’s needs and work in general.
Relationships are when you are near, with each other, figuratively speaking, “always”.
Long distance is not a relationship. There can be no long distance relationship. This is dog shit. Next to a high-ranking male = many women. For him, competition (struggle). If a woman is not around long enough, cheating is very, very likely. The man is a beast. Animal. Long with unmet needs will not last. And in general, betrayal at this point is also possible on the part of a woman, so no long separations from either side. Relationships are together.
Many women have - a scourge, to educate a man.
Woman, understand, you are not a mother, you are a wife! You are his woman. You don't need to educate a man. If you try to educate him, there will be quarrels, scandals, etc. And quarrels are not good because betrayal is possible. Comprendo? And in order not to educate - take a man right away, a finished product, and not sniff your mother or gouging. Take a ready, worthy man, and for this you need to think with your head and choose carefully.
Woman, remember: if a high-ranking male is next to you = and he is with you, rejoice.
Because he chose you! And I could choose any other. Understand? Therefore, jealousy is not needed, so you will only show your self-doubt (your low-ranking). And a high-ranking one needs an appropriate female. Do not doubt, a man will look at other women absolutely always. But he sleeps with you. He fucks you. Relationship builds with you. Lives with you. Etc.
Do not wind yourself up and do not throw tantrums and quarrels over nothing. Nothing good will come of it.
This does not mean that you can relax your rolls and that's it, he will always be with you, no! Relationships are constant work, constant. Watch yourself. Develop. Constantly. Be a woman. Feminine. Develop as a person. Close one hundred percent of the needs of a man. And so on and there will be happiness.
There is another 11 reason: drunk, but I won’t even consider it. A high-ranking male either does not drink at all, or in very small quantities. And with low-ranking (by the way) this can be a reality.
Summing up,
I'm sure now you know why men cheat or can cheat. Take the information into service, and there are great chances for the prosperity of a long-lasting, harmonious and happy relationship. Good luck to you! Bye.
Sincerely, administrator.
People can change, although this happens very rarely. However, by and large, a person is not inclined to change if he does not seriously think about it. Many of us are not able to accept a man for who he is. A woman maintains a relationship with a man, hoping that he will change. Often it is hope that keeps a woman with a man. Can hopes be justified?
This is a question I often get asked by my clients. Faced with betrayal, humiliation, rudeness, a woman does not know what to do. And when she finally decides to leave, the man comes to her with apologies and promises to improve. And then a natural question arises: is it worth giving him a second chance?
Client story
One young woman described her situation this way. The man humiliated her, sometimes beat her, scolded her, and generally treated her rather badly. She lived with him for 7 years. And after 7 years, she realized that she was very tired of all this. He went on another voyage (he was a sailor - that is, he periodically left). And she suddenly realized that she no longer wanted to remain in such a relationship. She was tired of being humiliated. She felt an inner emptiness and realized that the feelings had passed. And survived it all, woman began to pay attention to other men, she even began a new relationship, and she decided that she no longer wants to live as before and does not want to be with this person.
I want to note that the couple lived in a civil marriage, and the man never proposed to my client, which also overshadowed her life with him. And after she stopped clinging to the relationship, he, returning from the flight, offered her to marry him, on his knees he begged to forgive him and promised to treat her differently - they say, he realized everything:
- Forgive me, please, I understand everything, I don’t want to lose you, you are very dear to me, I really need you, marry me. I only see you as my wife, I don't need anyone else! I ask you to forgive me...
Is it worth giving a man a chance? Will he change?
People can change, although this happens very rarely. However, by and large, a person is not inclined to change. And something very impressive, shock, stress should happen: for example, a person falls into a coma, and when he comes out of it, he really changes very much. He changes values, outlook on life, priorities, etc. That is, very strong stress can make a person do a huge inner work, when in fact there is a rethinking of life, and the psyche, the structure of the “I” are transformed. And a person really begins to behave differently, treat people in a completely different way. By the way, in general, in old age there is a rethinking of values and priorities.
In this example, it is very difficult to say whether a man will change or not. The process is unpredictable. Maybe he really loves the woman so much that he doesn't want to lose her. When he realized the possibility of a complete rupture, something inside him clicked, and a transformation took place. Or perhaps this is an ordinary desire to keep what is leaving, and this desire is momentary, and when everything returns to normal, then the changes will end there.
But I would draw your attention to one important point in this story: look, when for 7 years a woman loved a man, endured everything, endured everything, she never had the thought that she was tired, she did not pay attention to men. And then suddenly she began to notice other gentlemen, and she had the feeling that she had fallen out of love.
With love,
Irina Gavrilova Dempsey
